How long will the mediation take?

Most mediation sessions are scheduled for two hours, but additional time can be added as needed. For more complex matters, half-day (4-hour) or full-day (up to 8-hour) sessions can be arranged. The number of sessions depends on the scope of the issues and what emerges during the intake process.

Before each session, the mediator works with all parties to outline the agenda based on the issues identified during intake. During the session, the mediator guides the conversation, helping participants clarify concerns, explore options, and work toward resolution on all relevant matters.

Will I be in the same room/zoom room as the other party?

Parties may be together for some, all or none of the mediation process depending on the circumstances of the mediation and comfort level of parties involved. It can be beneficial and efficient to discuss matters together and have options and openings to separate at times to discuss a particular issue. Parties may determine their preferences with the mediator prior to the mediation session.

Do I need to sign anything at mediation?

The only document you will be asked to sign before or during the mediation is the Agreement to Mediate. This agreement confirms your willingness to participate in the process, to maintain confidentiality, and to pay the mediator's fee.

The mediator does not require you to sign any other documents. If you choose to create or sign additional documents during or after mediation, that is entirely up to you and may be done with legal counsel, at your discretion.

What if I don’t like mediation while I am there?

Participation in mediation, even if you ‘ve agreed to attend, is voluntary, so at any moment if the process is not working for you, there is no obligation to stay or agree to anything.

Do I need to do anything in advance?

When preparing for mediation, it is helpful to think in advance of what exactly you are hoping to address, what outcomes you’d like to see and what margins you have (if any) for compromise. In mediation, you’ll be able to express what outcomes you want and make proposals that are self-determined and right for you.

Do I have to agree to anything in mediation?

The process allows parties to come to a mutually understandable arrangement for moving forward and any agreement is arrived at by parties and agreed to by each party. You do not have to agree to anything you do not wish to.

Do I need an attorney for mediation?

You do not need an attorney to participate in mediation, though the presence of attorneys is welcome. If you do have an attorney, having them attend or be available to consult can be valuable for answering legal questions.